They say it rains on the just and the unjust. At various times it probably could be said that I fall into both categories. Our lawn is currently green and lush, so I’m not complaining, but we’ve missed some really good chances for rain. The man who has taken on the responsibility of maintaining our lawn has done a tremendous job. He is a perfectionist and his rate is very affordable. He actually does a much better job than I’ve ever done. Consequently, I don’t plan to go back. Why should I “sweat it” since he’s set a higher standard and seems to enjoy the process. Interestingly, his own lawn is xeriscaping and it purposefully doesn’t take up much of his time.
Last year when the General had half of our lawn replaced with river rock, I opted to get rid of our lawnmower. It was taking up too much room in the well house. I also tossed my old weed eater and bought a new one. I used it one time, loaned it to a friend who found that it didn’t work, and put it back without resolving the issue of its brokenness. I mean after all, it is still in warranty, but getting it repaired is such an inconvenience. I’ve only been to the SEARS repair center one time and that was thirty years ago. I truthfully don’t even remember where it is located, but it was a long way from where I live.
Getting back to the rain, a couple came to church yesterday and their car had literally been through hail. The car was covered with huge dents. I guess I needed the visual imagine to really process the level of damage that hail can cause. Reportedly, a portion of Dripping Springs incurred golf-ball size hail one evening last week. In case you’re wondering, that causes a lot more damage than the nickel and dime stuff.
I guess when it comes to a hailstorm; it is a lot like the real estate market. It gets back to location, location, and location. The only variable is where you are at the time. Hail is no respecter of persons. If you find yourself in its path, brace yourself for the damage it can cause. You literally have no option but to ride out the storm.
Reportedly, many who found themselves in the hail headed for the closet bank to safely park under the portico extending over the drive-in banking location. Wouldn’t you know it? Everyone had the same idea and most didn’t find save cover. Consequently, there are dented cars in Drippin’. Fortunately, mine is not one of them, but only because I wasn’t in that location at the time.
It is interesting that when bad things happen, someone always wants to assign some level of blame. Sometimes people point the accusing finger to themselves. If only I hadn’t done this or that, I wouldn’t be dealing with this… You can play that game out and to the nth degree and it doesn’t alter one’s circumstances or situation at the end of the day. The blame game isn’t a silver lining that leads anywhere other than an attitude of regret unless it carries with it a lesson learned that leads to life-altering change. Then it may be worth the price of admission.
Living under the auspices of blame and shame doesn’t often add quality to one’s life. I’d much prefer to think each day is an opportunity to hit the reset button and with the Lord’s help choose to do it differently.
I recently visited with a young man at the hospital who said with a smile on his face something closely akin to: “My days of drinking, wild-ways and running around are over”. I had the thought: “Good for him!” Yet, I’ve known the guy a long, long time and I wouldn’t have described his lifestyle as being filled with any of those things. Back in the day when he prided himself on being a “wild bull rider who liked to rodeo”, maybe I would have been in agreement, but not now.
Fortunately, he has come to the place where he can live and learn, but I’m not sure it was a lesson he could have learned earlier. Maybe he should have known better, but I’m not sure without last week’s wake-up call, many of us would have gotten it. Even though he previously was forewarned by his doctor, he precipitously and unexpectedly found himself in harm’s way.
Though he was fully alert last week, he was moved from his hospital room to the intensive care unit with a blood sugar level of over 500. He knew something wasn’t right, but he didn’t know he was diabetic.
The year before the doctor mentioned a “pre-diabetic condition” and suggested a dietary and life-style change. The young man processed the information in exactly the same way that many of us would. He saw it as “cautionary and suggested” rather than a life and death mandate.
This time, there was nothing cautionary or suggested about the doctor’s warning. It was a mandate and it effectively garnered his attention. Just hearing the mandate made the hair on the back of my neck stand up.
The doctor’s pronouncement was grim. Without an immediate and abrupt lifestyle change, there were three things the young man could count on: damage to his kidneys, damage to his extremities and damage to his vision. All three were at risk.
Some may question the doctor’s bedside manner, but the physician was on a roll. There was more to the warning on the off-chance that his mandate for a life style change weren’t followed: “In all likelihood, the kidneys would be first to go. Consequently, the young man could count on coming to the hospital three times a week for dialysis”. The doctor wasn’t finished. “Next, we’ll start cutting off your legs and someone will be pushing you in a wheel chair to get you to dialysis. Next you’ll lose your vision and you won’t even known where you are, but someone will still be pushing you in a wheelchair to get you to dialysis.”
So what are the young man’s choices? If you’re thinking: “Get a new doctor”, that doesn’t really change the game plan. I’d turn to God and ask for the perseverance and stamina to go the distance in making dietary and life-style changes. Seriously, I think he has done that, but the journey is far more difficult than one might think. Consequently, please remember my anonymous friend in your prayers. I know that he would appreciate the prayer support.
All My Best!
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